I got a call today from my ex’s fiance. I wasn’t really sure what he wanted and he was hesitant to tell me. I finally told him to just go ahead and say it…and he did.
“Please stop calling J. She’s going to be my wife and she’s not yours any longer. I asked her to handle this but obviously she didn’t. This isn’t personal because I don’t know you very well. But I don’t want you contacting her anymore.”
I said, “Sure, fine. Whatever you want.” and we hung up.
I don’t know how to feel about this…yes, I know she’s not my wife nor would we ever get back together, but we’d remained friends the entire time and now it’s completely over. Sure, part of me is sad about it…I’ve known her for 15 years. The other part wishes her good luck, although I hope this guy isn’t the controlling dickhead that he appears to be. I guess this also means that the dogs are 100% mine, which is fine with me.
I’m just confused by the whole thing, Dear Reader. I guess you really can’t be friends with an ex.